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“Like a complete fool”

I love this, can’t quite remember where I found it a few months ago but I think it is super cute.

“I hope that I am your reason to smile, even if it means I’d have to act like a complete fool. I wish to be the one by your side when you’re sad, the one who cares for you when the whole world seems to be crumble around you.

I wish to be the one whom you’d create new memories with. I want to be the one next to you when the sunrise comes and the last one to kiss on the forehead before you go to sleep. To watch silly movies and laugh like the world is ours.”

All a girl really wants…

So my # 1 pet hate in the “dating” world at the moment is being treated like a piece off “ass”.

Girl meets guy. Guy just wants action off the bat. All a girl really wants is for someone to stroke her hair and tell her she is pretty, perhaps a few flirty kisses or two.

I am old school, or at least I used to be. And I blame this on the category of guys that I have been subjecting myself to over the last year or two. It has programmed me into thinking unless I give guys action they’re not going to like me. It’s has to stop.

Gone are the days that I allow anyone to treat me like a booty call or like anything less than I deserve. I used to be this “doe eyed girl” (although I have blue eyes & not brown), I digress; I never really used to utter any swear words, I despised kissing people that smoke, I wouldn’t previously go anywhere near anyone that did any form of drugs let alone even smoked weed, I have never really been a fan of tattoos (this is a personal choice and preference). I would date guys for months before anything more than kissing happened. Sure, this all sounds prudish. I don’t care, I had standards and I still do but somewhere along the line I started compromising some of these and allowing myself to dip. Me; personally.

What happened to how things that happened back in the day; where you’d go on proper innocent dates, flirt a little and maybe end the evening with a steamy kiss that left you wanting more?

I want to go for walks in the park, holding hands and frolicking, and most of all laughing.

I want to go to the movies and to order popcorn and a slush puppie.

I want to go on dinner dates and to drink a glass of red wine and just be flirtatious, it doesn’t have to go anywhere else.

I want to go to a waffle house and eat a waffle topped with ice-cream and syrup. This is one is a biggie for me, I haven’t had a waffle in years.

I want to meet your friends and family and it must be genuine and not just a case of look at my “hot piece of ass”.

I want to be able to ask you to sleep over for the night and not worry about how much of my clothes I have to take off in order for you to actually want to stay over for the night.

And most of all I just want to be told that I am pretty on the inside and the outside. Not hot or that I have a nice ass and sexy legs.

You know what used to be one of my absolute favourite things in life, a first kiss. I used to love how awkwardly sexy it was and the anticipation it would bring to every sense in my being.

Loved reading this article on Elite Daily the other day as it says a lot – “8 Modern Dating Struggles That No Other Generation Has Had To Deal With”

Kissing, So Hot Right Now

We all know what a sucker I am for kissing, I have said it before and I will keep saying it. Kissing is probably the sexiest thing out there that two people can do. When I kiss someone it will either make or break whatever is to happen from that point onwards.

I have not been posting a lot of pictures on my kissing page lately, yes I am a slacker, but I post a lot on my Pinterest kissing board. Eat your heart out at these images. Hot.

Now the reason I am actually blogging about this subject today, instead of the usual post on the aforementioned dedicated kissing page is because, have you seen what is happening out there? Kissing is hot, and it’s grabbing people’s attention, about damn time too.

The Lacoste Ad. “The Big Leap”

From your first steps, to your first race.
From your first scream, to your first speech.
From your first heartbeat, to your first kiss.

I mean hello? That is hot!

The video “20 Strangers Kiss for the First Time”

Okay, so now that we have all watched that and gotten a stupid smile on our (my) face/s, how lovely is this? I loved it, from the second I heard about it, until the very last moment of the clip. And yes, I believe it’s actually a clothing ad. and the “strangers” are all actually actors. I do not care, it’s magical. The song also really makes the whole thing, I want to kiss while it’s playing in the background, so if there are any takers out there, I am looking to get French…

And then, whilst paging around on Flipboard, something I do not often do (not often enough) I discovered this song, I am still trying to decide if I actually like the song or if it’s just the kissing in the music video that captured me. Okay, I do actually like the song”, listen to the words. Oh. My. Gawsh. “I only need you to be French with me”.

Shura – Touch

This new girl that is on the block better have her music available on iTunes, soon.

When he leaned over to kiss me for the first time on his couch I thought my mind was going to explode. And it feels that way every time. And so it should.

Year 2 0 1 4

Just what exactly should I be blogging about today? Do I go on about the New Year’s party that I didn’t really enjoy, do I go on about the fact that it scares me how many people take drugs or that I cannot believe how many smokers there are out there at the moment? Or perhaps I should do an article on the New Year resolutions that I will probably forget about in a week’s time?

All these things are on my mind, but today I am going to give them a skip.

I am so looking forward to the year that lies ahead, I want to go to more live gigs and shows. Hiking, I need more of this in my life and 2014 is the year I am going to make it happen. Also kissing, but not just kissing anyone. It needs to be someone that makes my tummy go crazy and my toes curl.

And running, in 2012 I bought myself new running shoes and I said that I was going to regularly run 10km races. I did one in 2013 (Warrior Races not included). So I’ll try do more of that this year. Problem is though, I went online just now to look at the upcoming races and they are all so freaking far away…! There is no chance you are going to catch me driving to Benoni, Kempton Park or the likes thereof to run a race that is most likely starting at 6am, or at 6pm in fact! I’ll stick to my area for now and just find new streets to run along, it’s so pretty as it is anyway.

2013 has possibly been one of the best years I have ever had, or it has been the year where some of the best things happened to me all in one year (does it sound like I am on Cloud 9 when I talk like this?)

I have been going online day after day for the last week now, just looking for my next travel destination. I am struggling to decide, I mean where do you go when you want to go everywhere? Also when you need to save to go there first!

Another “problem” is that I want to go somewhere where I can go lie on a beach in my bikini sipping cocktails as well.  Maybe I should plan two trips this year and just make both shorter?

This is the list so far –

Vietnam, Cambodia, Bali, Étretat & Paris (France), Italy, Belgium, Croatia, Greece, Bulgaria, Slovenia, Amsterdam, Istanbul/Turkey, Zanzibar…

I also have that crazy bucket list of mine that need to try get through this year, you remember right? That long list of 100 things that I need to do, which also reminds me… I need to change it a bit as I know there are a few things on there that have changed a bit.

This is also the year that I need to spend $$ wisely (whilst having the time of my life at the same time of course).

Looking back at 2013 I have no idea where I managed to find the time to do everything that I did, especially the last few months of the year.

New Year’s resolution? I honestly do not have one, every morning when I wake up I make tiny and sometimes big promises to myself, whether it be to be a nicer person, give a homeless person food, smile at a stranger, save a little more money, buy that pair of shoes that I have been looking at, plan my next trip. My Mom always taught me that you should try without losing who you are in it all to be a better person and improve your way of living without negatively affecting the people around you. Don’t wait once a year to make yourself promises, start every day when you wake up (unless you wake up with someone next to you of course, because by all means, you then need to start your day off with a kiss) 😉


It Has Been A Great Year So Far!

It has been awhile since I have posted anything on my blog, which is sad because I absolutely love typing a bunch of words and sharing what is going on in my head. I have thought about many things to blog about but it’s like I never have the time anymore, or like I just can’t get what I want to say out.

Usually I share what has happened during the course of my year more towards the end of it, but I haven’t really posted much so I have decided to start now, better than late than never, right?

Nothing really exciting happened in January, I got back from my annual holiday from Umngazi and pretty much got stuck in my work. With only a couple of months to count down towards my Thailand holiday there wasn’t much on my mind, other than that.

February was another busy work month, it’s always one of the busiest times of the year for work. I remember at one stage I used to be busy with only work all the time, I never really had time for anything or anyone. Terrible. I also went to the Red Hot Chilli Peppers concert in Feb, which was a total blast. It was a spur of the moment decision to go, and although I paid R950.00 from my Thailand pocket money savings for the ticket it was totally worth it! The equivalent of a lady boyand a ping pong show! “dammit” 😉 haha

Squash league started in March, I won my first match, little did I know I would lose every single other one until the very last game! I proudly submitted my 3rd ever rooms budget in March, and I say proudly because what I produce especially when it comes to those figures is a total work of art. I love my work and I love watching how something like that comes together.  On the 23rd March at approximately 13:40 my plane lifted off headed towards Bangkok. No words can even come close to explaining how excited I was, I was going to a foreign country, on my own for 2 whole weeks. And it was absolutely amazing, it changed me forever, read more about that here – Thailand & Contiki Thai Hopper West Tour 2013.

On the 6th April I landed back in SA, I remember walking through the International arrivals towards my parents feeling like a completely different person, it was official. The travel bug had definitely bitten me. Over the course of that weekend while my parents were visiting I moved into my new, bigger garden cottage. Absolutely love it. Attended an awesome 3 day assistant managers conference with fellow managers in my company, threw pies at people, as one does. I started getting quite involved with various Community projects through work as the CSI committee head, which has a massive impact on me personally.

May pretty average as far as anything was concerned, although a highlight was probably going on the Jozi Red Bus Tour with my bestest, Linelle. I remember looking at myself in the mirror at work one day and deciding that I need to really do something about my skin condition on my face and immediately made an appointment to see a specialist at Skin Renewal, I have been going to one chemical peel and mircoderm abrasion facial every month since and can definitely say that I am finally starting to see an improvement. I was feeling extremely restless in May. All I remember is that I became restless at work, I wanted to move to the UK, I wanted to change jobs, I wanted to move away, change careers, I stopped going to gym and being fit and healthy. Eventually I applied for a different job in my company, which I did not get, in hindsight I am glad that I didn’t because I realise the job was not for me and I would have been equally as unhappy as I was.

On the 11th May I did my first Warrior Race, and on the 12th May, I did my second Warrior Race, yes clearly I was crazy at the time, I loved it! Luckily I was still quite fit so I did not kill myself. I went to watch Prime Circle Unplugged session live at The Venue in Melrose on the 20th,  they were amazing! Perhaps May wasn’t quite average after all?

June, hmmm.. went to watch another band live, The Parlotones Unplugged session at The Venue, also enjoyed them, but their opening band was ISO, whom I absolutely adore! The 12th of June 2013 will forever be one of the most heartbreaking days of my life, I have never had to deal with “tradegy” or with death, my dearest love of my life Charlie Chaplin passed after being on oxygen for 2 hours in the early hours of the morning. I sobbed for hours until I eventually passed out. Lately, I have been really teary and missing him again. There is nothing that I could say that could explain how precious he was to me, I always tell people that CharlieC was my saving grace during an extremely dark time in my life in 2011, he saved me and was my company helping me come out of that place. He is and will always be dearly missed in my life. I was “lucky” enough to have taken that long weekend off in June to go away with my parents to the Midlands, which was so much fun. I loved spending the weekend with them, the Midlands is quite pretty, a bit overrated but also beautiful at the same time. I showered in an outside shower overlooking the grass paddocks in the freezing cold and climbed to the top of trees hanging upside down and feeling like a kid again. My Mom & I did a tree top canopy tour which was on my bucket list, it was great fun! On the 22nd June I did another Warrior Race, which wasn’t as fun as I was not fit and I felt I was letting my team down.

Monkey Girl

I went to my first night market in Maboneng in July, it was fun. Glad I did it. Nothing to write home about… Had the privilege of attending the Starlight Express SA show at the Jo’burg Theatre. Great production! I also finally went to visit my Ouma in Mpumalanga after not seeing her for almost a year, I am a terrible Grandchild, really. I should make more effort, she is precious to me. That weekend my cousin also taught me how to ride an off road motorbike, another bucket list tick! On the 18th July for Mandela Day I cycled for 67 minutes for R67 for a good cause, waking up easn’t easy and I did not have much of a personality for the rest of the day.

August, BIRTHDAY month!! It was great, but only because I spent an entire week away in the Kruger Park with my amazing parents and then had a great dinner with them and my bestest and her hubby to celebrate my Birthday. Got to go up to Randlords for some music event and heard Newton 2nd Law and others live, SA music is the best! I finally cycled my first Critical Mass ride on the 30th August, it was an absolute blast! Will totally do it again. Pinkie Fest was so awesome again this year, it was on the 31st and there was some great musicians and DJs playing there. The people that I partied with were awesome.

After a bloody mad last week of August I started September off with a bang at the Zwartkops annual round table charity bed race, such a blast, I designed the bed this year, it was a milkshake and burger diner car. And I got to wear a bright pink tutu! I also applied for two jobs which I was interviewed for, hopefully will be hearing about what is going on there within the next 48 hours. Holding thumbs for the outcome. It will not be easy either way, but change is needed and I am ready for it. This past weekend I went to a braai hosted at one of my new squash friend’s house and it was such a jol, I learnt how to play Petanique, Google it. It is so much fun. After an entire day of drinking I then decided it would be a bright idea to carry on partying and then proceeded to go out again to Acoustic Cafe in Randburg with some mates. Let’s just say that I am a lightweight when it comes to drinking, so I felt really sorry for myself on Sunday morning.

It has been an awesome year so far, my number one goal for myself is to get fit again, stop drinking and start eating healthy. The next Warrior Race is up in October and then 94.7 cycle challenge is around the corner. I also need to throw in a few 10km running races in there somewhere.

The next date that I am looking forward to is this coming Saturday which is my best friend, Linelle’s Birthday. Which also reminds me, Happy Birthday for today my friend. You are an amazing person and I am really lucky you have you in my life. We may not see each other every day but you are still one of the best people to come into my life in the last year. Thank you for everything!

The one ‘Single’ Question that keeps popping up…

So here it is. I didn’t want to post something on this subject but I feel I need to let it out now. Not because it bothers me but because people seemingly think it is their business.

The question that a few people have been asking me for quite a while now is why am I single? Is there any right or wrong answer to this? I find that no matter what answer you give there is quite the distaste towards women that are single.

Before I give you my final answer to the “why am I single?” question. Give me a moment to go on about it first.

I have sussed out the general idea from a couple of guys judging from their reactions towards my response when they ask me why I am single.

“She’s awesome, good looking and funny BUT she must be a psycho. I mean if she wasn’t a psycho why else would she be single?” – maybe I don’t want to settle for 2nd best just so that I don’t have to be single?

“She is too career driven and too independent, I want a girl that needs me to be her one and all.” – this one in particular drives me crazy, I mean really. Grow a pair. You’d be lucky to date any woman like this.

“She has a cat.” – oh shite, that is so right… you have Play Station don’t you? I have a cat because I know how to share my love and look after another living creature, you f*ck.

“She’s too forward and chatty.” – look, this is who I am. It really is a big part of me. I am forward, that doesn’t mean I am easy and want to jump your bones. I am also pretty sure I made mention on my ‘About Me’ page of how I don’t have the time for any of this who messages who first nonsense. It’s confusing and leaves an empty void of who does what.

I am sure there are a few other things that go through a guys mind but the above are the few that stuck out to me.

Now the single ‘issue’, why is it such an issue to be single? My friends often say to me, stop looking someone will come along one day when you least expect it. This is true. Thing is, I am not so to say ‘looking’ for someone. Would it be awesome to have that special someone who I would really make my one and all? Yes it would and yes damn I am looking, but I am definitely not prepared to drop my standards or just settle for just anyone.

Another friend recently told me that my standards are just TOO high, are you kidding me?? Oh, I am so sorry I thought I deserve to be with someone that is bloody awesome. Sure, there is no such thing as perfect, I 100% understand that. But out there is the perfect fit for me.


and this!

The guy that can challenge me (both mentally and physically), can make me laugh, is intelligent, knowledgeable, humble, strong, knows how to kiss me till I am dizzy and is honest is the guy for me. Looks are fabulous, and really are a plus factor but at the end of the day are not that important.

Love this 🙂

So the answer to the BIG question, “why is a girl like me single?” – because this is where I am in my life right now, it’s not a disease and I am not unhappy about it. Accept it.

PS – guys, why am I forward? The reason is because none of you know where your balls are and know how to ask a lady out these days. No one said that when you go out on a date you have to end up dating or marrying that person. If it doesn’t work out then it doesn’t. Move on, at least you can say you tried.

Unless you try…

And I can assure you if you have managed to get a kiss out of me you must have done something right because that is NOT something I throw freely around.

That said… where can I find a man like this?

I would eat this right up!

For Today…

Love, live, be… and kiss 🙂

You don’t know…

I did say kiss….

And just because I just think it needs to be said –

Dance, love, sing & just live!

It’s all about balance!

A ‘lil takkie squeak time & a good vent …

I am really in the mood for a good party. I haven’t been out since April, the night a good mate of mine’s boyfriend told her not to go out with me because I only try to get lucky – nice hey?

People that really know me well enough know that this is most certainly not the kind of person I am.

Sure I have a bit of naughty streak in me and I tend to let it out on certain platforms when I really shouldn’t 🙂 and yes of course I know how to have some ‘good fun’, but that doesn’t mean I am always out to get lucky.

Casual… sex, benefit buddies? No thank you – if it’s working for any of you that’s great, no judgement from me at all. Whatever floats your boat and tickles your ‘pansy’, I’m all for it.

I love to kiss (as you may have already picked up if you have seen my ‘Kiss of the Day’ page before. Kissing is sexy enough for me, and I can assure you if you kiss really badly nothing is going to go any further – ever. If the kissing is good and I if I like you enough maybe I’ll let you tickle my ‘pansy’ sometime!

The kind of party action I like!

Now I am seriously off topic here 🙂 !! Tonight on my way home from gym I listened to some really ‘oldish’ tracks that I used to absolutely love when I was still in High School. All I can think of right now is just going out and having a fabulous and care free party! No judgement, no expectations and no worry about driving home.

Here are a few of the ‘old favs’, they just don’t play them anymore and it’s a pity.

ATB – Don’t Stop; do people even remember this song?

Bob Sinclair ft. Steve Edwards – World Hold On; brings back some really amazing party memories with 2 of my best friends

Brandy – Aphrodisiac; whatever you want I got it Pappi, can you imagine the moves to this – sexy!

Busta Rhymes ft. Estelle – World Go Round; I used to freaking love Busta Rhymes

Busta Rhymes ft. Pussycat Dolls  – Don’t Cha; Don’t cha wish your girlfriend was HOT like me! 😉

Daft Punk – Around the World; Daft Punk – ‘nuff said

Diddy ft. Keyshia Cole – Last Night; I am picturing sex me eyes across the dance floor 😉

Eve ft. Alicia Keys – Gansta Loving; “I just wanna rock you all night long”

Shakira ft. Wyclef Jean – Hips don’t lie; would be great if I actually had hips to swing

Lumidee – Never Leave You – Uh Ooh; SERIOUSLY… no words

Missy Elliott – Get UR Freak On; uh yeah, on the dance floor, hopefully soon!

Sean Paul – Get Glue; “well I don’t really care what people say”

Mary Mary – Real Party; go ahead and just listen to this song!

Mary Mary – Shackles

& on that note… take your shackles off my feet so I can dance 😉

I Believe

I absolutely love this! Especially the kissing part 😉

10 Strange Facts About Kissing

Since I have a page entirely dedicated to kissing on my blog I thought why not share a few facts about kissing 🙂 Kissing is probably one of my most favourite things in the whole wide world! If only I was actually lucky enough to get a kiss a day as sexy as the ones I post everyday!

Sexy Kiss... Hmm

1. Two out of every three couples turn their heads to the right when they kiss.

2. A simple peck uses two muscles; a passionate kiss, on the other hand, uses all 34 muscles in your face. Now that’s a rigorous workout!

3. Like fingerprints or snowflakes, no two lip impressions are alike.

No two lip impressions are alike!

4. Kissing is good for what ails you. Research shows that the act of smooching improves our skin, helps circulation, prevents tooth decay, and can even relieve headaches.

5. The average person spends 336 hours of his or her life kissing.

6. Ever wonder how an “X” came to represent a kiss? Starting in the Middle Ages, people who could not read used an X as a signature. They would kiss this mark as a sign of sincerity. Eventually, the X came to represent the kiss itself.

Love letters sealed with a 'X'

7. Talk about a rush! Kissing releases the same neurotransmitters in our brains as parachuting, bungee jumping, and running.

8. The average woman kisses 29 men before she gets married.

9. Men who kiss their partners before leaving for work average higher incomes than those who don’t.

10. The longest kiss in movie history was between Jane Wyman and Regis Tommey in the 1941 film,You’re in the Army Now. It lasted 3 minutes and 5 seconds. So if you’ve beaten that record, it’s time to celebrate!

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