Age – Is But a Number…
Age? Is but a number, right? Well I for one do not have real issues towards age, except for the fact that when I am sitting at a table full of people my age all I am really thinking to myself is “What am I doing here right now?” I just cannot do it; all I hear is “Blah, sex, blah, drunk, blah, partying, blah… BLAH”. Sure I have a couple of friends from school that are my age, and generally we all still get along very well 🙂
I have learnt a lot about myself over the last, I’d say 6 months or so. I have realised that whilst I am still young (very young :)) I generally prefer to socialise with a much older crowd, both female & male company. I struggle to chat to others my age, because all they want to do is – party themselves into a drunk stupor, and hope to go to the parking lot with a random to have sex (yes I said it), smoke weed (smoking full stop is absolutely disgusting, but that is another story which I will one day post), sleep until the most ridiculous hour of the day (what a waste of the day time beauty), they talk about irrelevant & uneducated subjects (which from time to time is okay)… I am just not connecting with my age group.
It’s fine though… right? Well if not I may have a problem, but it’s already too late. I enjoy reading, going for dinners & movies (instead of the clubbing all the time), gardening (I know, I’m screwed)… p.s. my first Moon Flower should be blooming soon 😉 I LOVE my work, love it! The responsibility I have at work is also not that of a normal level for someone my age, which at times is stressful but I wouldn’t have chosen any different path for myself career wise.
I have already decided that should I not be in a fully committed relationship by at least 28 I will have a child alone (depending on the fact that I can actually afford to at the time).
One night stands and casual sex, I do not believe in it. It is just not for me. That is all I am saying on that, if you want to discuss that one in depth ask me for coffee, it’s at least a 30 minute discussion that I can have.
On holiday at the beautiful Umngazi Resort every year I meet up with the regular crowd my age (give or take 1 or 2 years older/younger), instead of drinking shooters till the wee hours of the mornings with them, I sit and drink wine & G&Ts with people at least 5 – 10 years older than me, why? Because the conversation is more interesting and more mature… However the chances that you’ll find me building a sand castle or doing cartwheels on the beach the next day is pretty high. What’s my point? I am still young and enjoy doing youthful ‘childish’ things. Acting like a kid is fun!
Men/Man/Boys/Guys/Dudes… younger than me… NO GO, been there, done that and literally threw away the T Shirt; my age… high, horny & drunk; wait the horny part doesn’t change no matter what age group 😉 haha. Older than me? Yes, but not between ages 25 – 27, why? Because. they. do. not. know. what. they. want… Really I am not even joking here. But then again neither do I so I don’t know what I am really saying here 🙂
So the next article… I am thinking that I will actually be sitting down and typing out the real RFP list, so I can figure it out.
p.s I love clubbing, like in really love it and I cannot wait until I find a really sexy man to take out with me to party with.